Savvy Sophistication

Thriving not Surviving!

Welcome to the ultimate guide on mastering modern motherhood and thriving in the digital age! In this blog post, we will explore how moms can juggle the demands of parenting, career, and self-care while finding joy and fulfillment in every aspect of their lives. As a mom of two I understand the demands of a busy career life and remaining productive within the home as a mother. We can thrive in motherhood, and be committed to our dream careers.

1. Embracing Technology as a Tool

Find Your Tribe

Technology is at your fingertips, and we have the ability to use it. Our grandmothers never had door dash, Walmart delivery, or Pinterest. Use your technology, and also use it to find your tribe. Get connected at church, join a mom’s Pilates class, or a mom’s only Facebook forum. Even though we are blessed to have modern tools it doesn’t mean we should go without mama fellowship. With that being said be careful with who you decide to add to your tribe. Not everyone is cut from the same cloth, has the same morals, or beliefs. Choose your mom tribe wisely! Stay away from complaining, complacency, and criticism. Motherhood can be tough, and YOU deserve a tribe that is dedicated to bettering each other.

Setting boundaries with technology

Screen time and social media highlight reels are for the birds! Now social media can be a great tool, but it shouldn’t be your entire life. Remember to take a break and reduce your screen time for better mental health. Having a rough day? Skip the social media mindless scrolling and take a bubble bath or read scripture in your Bible. This is also a friendly reminder to skip screen time for your children and get outside for fresh air. A walk around your neighborhood or a trip for ice cream can make anyone’s day brighter. At least once a week make time for an hour to do something for your family away from screen.

2. Prioritizing Self-Care

The importance of self-care for moms

I don’t have to tell you that getting your hair done, painting your nails, or treating yourself to something small makes you feel better. Self care is something we all need more of! Find the thing that makes you happy and do it every two weeks. Whether that’s a nail appointment or getting a latte alone go do it! Take care of yourself. Put the kids to bed early one night a week and watch that one show, and grab a favorite snack and just relax. It’s okay to take care of yourself. I have to remind myself of this daily. My days are so long and I just want time with my children, but I know that you can’t pour from an empty cup. All you need is just 20 minutes to yourself to feel refreshed.

3. Nurturing Relationships

Strengthening family bonds

Make time during the week nights for dinner with your children, and husband. Make them sit down together with no screens on in the background. It’s one of my only rules even if it’s a chaotic day. So we didn’t have a normal dinner? We watch one show and snuggle. That’s okay too! Just make family connections when possible. Take children on “dates”, take them to the grocery store, or take them to all events. It always makes for great memories.

4. Career and Motherhood Integration

Flexible work options

Okay I know! Not everyone has the flexibility to work remotely or has a flexible schedule. If you don’t then leave work at the door when you walk in your home. Don’t respond to emails after 7pm, don’t overdo social media messages, and silent group messages. I struggle with this and sometimes set aside one hour in the morning and one at night to get caught up. We only get so many years while our children are little to enjoy it. Be flexible and present when at home.

Advocating for working mothers

I’m a strong advocate for breastfeeding moms. I really enjoyed my breastfeeding journey, and it was an important part of my motherhood experience. Especially since there were formula shortages during Covid and I didn’t have to worry because I did breastfeed. I try to advocate for education, and awareness of the importance of breastfeeding. This is one way I advocate for women. Is there a way you can advocate for working mothers too? What is your passion? Sick days for children, paid maternity leave, sustainable living, etc? Share it, educate others, and be voice for it. Small changes turn into big ones, and the more you share the more other people learn.

Conclusion

Our key takeaways from this post are finding a tribe, using technology to your advantage, making time for self care. Ladies we are not just surviving this gig called motherhood; we are thriving! Embrace your journey, and remember that you are capable! Just remember to take care of yourself too.

Stay savvy!

Love,

Corey